Comments for Planning A Wedding

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by Colleen O

Colleen O — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 16:27:31 +0000

Getting married because of pregnancy is a lousy reason to get married. It is one of the paths to the end of the marriage later on.

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by DelinquentGurl

DelinquentGurl — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 17:51:55 +0000

Do you want to get married? I would advise against getting married just for the sake of having a child together. A marriage is hard enough work as it is and when you throw an unplanned pregnancy into the mix it can be a recipe for disaster. I’m not saying everyone who has gotten married when they found out they were pregnant is making a mistake, I just know that getting married for the childs’ sake is usually not a good idea.

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by kelli s

kelli s — Mon, 24 Nov 2008 15:40:17 +0000

dont rush into it unless you know that how you want for the rest of your life.. if he is then go for it.

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by Faith

Faith — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 23:15:22 +0000

Don’t rush it! Marriage is a serious commitment and it shouldn’t be taken lightly. I don’t think that anyone should get married just because they are pregnant. You marry someone for love and because you want to share the rest of your life with that person. I would really think about it. You can always get married, why rush into it. Have the baby and see where your relationship stands then?

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by Douglas D

Douglas D — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 15:31:56 +0000

If you weren’t ready to get married to this man BEFORE you became pregnant, then don’t make your pregnancy the only reason that you get married now.

If you go ahead, & force a wedding just because of the kid, then I think you are putting an overwhelming & unfair responsibility on your unborn child for things to work out between you & the childs father.

Don’t get married until you both are ready. It’s too late to say the same about getting pregnant, so don’t try to make two wrongs make a right.

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by letterstoheather

letterstoheather — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 10:57:06 +0000

do what is best for YOU.

who cares what we think?

i hope everything works out and that you have a nice life

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by Sushilove

Sushilove — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 23:06:25 +0000

do you think he’s the one you want to stay with for the rest of your life, go for it. if not, dont force yourself

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by Karma M

Karma M — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 23:38:08 +0000

Marriage is not something that should be rushed into and is not something that should be done just because you are pregnant. Marriage is something that needs to be done for one reason and one reason alone and that is simply because you love him want to be there to support and care for for the rest of your life. People look at marriage different now adays and that bothers me it is not something that you go into thinking well if this does not work I can always go get a divorce. Wrong come on people put so love a effort into this and do it for the right reason. NOT a good one to do it only for the baby will be harder one the child if it does not work out in the long run. Think about it.

Comment on marriage???????? by alandicho

alandicho — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 22:30:21 +0000

Some people still value morality!

Comment on Marriage??????????????????????????????? by M U

M U — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 20:32:14 +0000

As hard as it is to do, you MUST think separately about your pregnancy and about marriage. Is this the right guy for the long haul? Will you be able to make him happy? Will he be able to make YOU happy? Are you old enough to get married? Are both of you mature enough to handle a marriage? Can he support you and a baby until you are able to go back to work? You need to be as sure as you can be about all of these questions and tons more before you get married.

It is easy to think of marriage as the answer to the pregnancy, but you will be doing yourself, your boyfriend and your baby a big dis-service if you get married only because you are pregant. A baby makes the relationship harder, not easier, and marriage is a lot of work in the best circumstances.

You need to do some serious thinking, and opinions here shouldn’t count. However, getting advice from an expert, like a minister or, even better, a professional marriage counselor, might help you sort out what is right for you. You have a tough road ahead, but I wish you very good luck whatever you decide!!